I work every week day and he works when he feels like it
AITA for asking my girlfriend to teach me how to cook and clean
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Those are called META posts, and they must have a title that starts with META. “Teach me how to do any of the things you want me to do” is just a bridge too far.” There are some universal conversations that a lot of us have had and unless OP girlfriend is a loon, and he never said she was, we all know this wasn a straight line from “Can you show me how to do some household stuff I never learned?” directly to “I not your mother!”.
Things happened in between, or rather a lot of things didn happen. A whole lot of “You just better at this kind of stuff” happened.
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If he does it alone he will probably look at a range of similar bottles pick the one and do a worse job rather than ask once, be told once and do it right?I’m pregnant and my guy is between genuinely trying and not giving a shit. It’s not so much the actual tasks like doing floors or organizing things, it’s that he simply cannot clean up after himself. That’s where I lose it. I work and do all the “woman’s work” on the weekends. All it needs to be maintained and stay nice is for him to very simply clean up after himself. He leaves snot tissues by the couch. Glasses everywhere. Shoes by the door not by the rack, jacket thrown wherever. I work every week day and he works when he feels like it.
canada goose I’ve dead ass taught him how to clean up after himself, how to clean as he goes. He just doesn’t do it. He says it’s ADD and it probably is to an extent but omg. canada goose
Canada Goose Jackets Making an effort is researching on his own how to do the tasks he doesn’t know. Making an effort is trying the task and asking for constructive criticism (and actually accepting what his spouse tells him). Making an effort is going to the bookstore and finding books on cleaning or housekeeping and reading up on the topic. Canada Goose Jackets
Asking someone for help before trying to find the information himself is putting the emotional labor of having to teach on his spouse.
